Parent Education

Childbirth Preparation Guide

Preparing for childbirth doesn't mean predicting exactly how your birth will happen. It means understanding what to expect, knowing your options, preparing your support team, and feeling more confident about what to do when labor begins. Every birth is different. Your healthcare team will guide you based on your pregnancy, your baby, and what is safest for both of you. Questions about your upcoming delivery?

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Getting Ready for Labor

As your due date gets closer, focus on a few simple preparations.

Know Where You're Going

  • Which hospital or birth center you will use
  • Where to enter after hours
  • When your provider wants you to call
  • Who is allowed to be with you
  • What you should bring
  • How long it takes to get there

Pack Your Hospital Bag

  • For You: photo ID and insurance info, comfortable clothes, toiletries, phone and charger, glasses/contacts, clothes to wear home
  • For Baby: going-home outfit, properly installed car seat, weather-appropriate clothing
  • For Your Support Person: comfortable clothes, toiletries, snacks, phone and charger
  • Install your baby's car seat before your due date. That is one less thing to think about when it's time to come home.
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How Will I Know I’m in Labor?

It isn’t always obvious at first. You may notice:

  • Increasing contractions
  • Pelvic pressure
  • Your baby feeling lower
  • Increased vaginal discharge
  • Loss of some or all of the mucus plug
  • Your water breaking

True labor contractions generally become more regular, closer together and stronger over time, while practice contractions may remain irregular or ease with rest or a change in activity.

Are they becoming stronger? Are they getting closer together? Are they continuing even when I change positions or rest? If you’re not sure whether you’re in labor, contact your maternity care team.

Your own provider should tell you when they want you to come to the hospital, because
recommendations can differ based on your pregnancy.

What Happens During Labor?

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Early Labor

Contractions begin and your cervix starts changing. You may still be able to talk through contractions, walk around, rest, eat or drink if your care team permits, and stay comfortable at home if your provider says it is appropriate.

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Active Labor

Contractions usually become stronger and closer together. You may need more concentration, breathing support, position changes, massage or counterpressure, and pain-management support.

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Birth

As labor progresses, your healthcare team will guide you through pushing and delivery. After your baby arrives, your team will assess both you and your baby and support bonding and feeding when medically appropriate.

Comfort and Pain Relief

There is no prize for having a certain type of labor. Some parents want minimal medication. Others know they want an epidural. Some decide as labor progresses. All of those choices are valid.

Comfort Techniques

You may want to try:

  • Walking
  • Position changes
  • Slow breathing
  • Birth ball
  • Massage
  • Counterpressure
  • Warm or cool comfort measures when appropriate
  • Quiet music
  • Support from your partner or birth companion

Medical Pain Relief

Options may include medications given through an IV and regional anesthesia such as an epidural. What is available will depend on your hospital, your medical circumstances and your care team.

Ask about your options before labor begins so you understand them before you need to decide.

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Your Birth Preferences

My Birth Preferences

Think about what matters to you.

During Labor
  • Who would I like with me?
  • Would I like to move around when possible?
  • What comfort techniques would I like to try?
  • What are my thoughts about pain medication?
  • How do I want my support person involved?
After Baby is Born

When medically appropriate:

  • Skin-to-skin
  • Partner involvement
  • Breastfeeding or feeding support
  • Lactation consultation
  • Rooming-in

A birth preference sheet is a communication tool, not a guarantee. Labor can change quickly. Sometimes your healthcare team may recommend something different because of your health or your baby’s health. Being prepared also means understanding that the plan may change.

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What About Induction?

Induction means using medications or other methods to start labor. Your provider may recommend induction for medical reasons or discuss it with you based on your pregnancy and gestational age. Methods can include preparing the cervix, medications that stimulate contractions or breaking the amniotic sac

If induction is being discussed, ask:

  • Why are you recommending induction?
  • What happens first?
  • How long might the process take?
  • Can I move around?
  • What are my pain-management options?
  • What happens if labor doesn't progress?
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What If I Need a C-Section?

A Cesarean birth is surgery used to deliver a baby through incisions in the abdomen and uterus. It may be planned before labor or become necessary during labor for a variety of maternal or fetal reasons. If you have a C-section, you are still giving birth.

Your healthcare team can explain:

  • Why it is recommended
  • What anesthesia will be used
  • Whether your support person can be present
  • When you may meet or hold your baby
  • Feeding and skin-to-skin options
  • What recovery will look like

Different Birth. Same Goal. Sometimes the safest birth is different from the one you imagined. Understanding the possibilities ahead of time can make unexpected changes less frightening.

When Should I Call?

Your obstetric team should give you specific instructions. Contact them if:

  • You think labor has started
  • Your water may have broken
  • You have vaginal bleeding
  • You notice significantly decreased fetal movement
  • You are having regular or painful contractions before your expected delivery period
  • Something feels wrong or you are unsure what to do

For severe symptoms or an emergency, seek immediate medical care.

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